RIP Mike Harvey, My Coach and Mentor

Many folks behind the scenes have heard my story.  

My parents divorced when I was in the 4th grade.  My world crashed in around me as things drastically changed in our household.

Mike Harvey was my soccer coach in Centralia Washington.  He knew my family situation.  Every practice and every game he picked me up and took me home every year through the 8th grade.   He was a stable force in my life I could count on.  He provided me the transportation I needed that my mother couldn’t provide as she was working very hard to provide for her family.

After I graduated from college, Mike and his wife, Linda, continued to support me as my career was getting launched.  We kept in touch over the years and they have always been so supportive and kind.

As last soccer season ended, I called Mike and thanked him.  I told him it took me two years of being president of Milltown to realize the reason I was so passionate about Milltown was him.  He made a HUGE difference in my life and I feel I/we can make a difference in other peoples lives via soccer and our caring and our mentoring.

Today I received a call from my mom that Mike had passed away.  It was sudden.  Its a shock.

I feel fortunate that I had an opportunity to thank him.  I feel fortunate that just two weeks ago my wonderful wife Stacey called Mike and spoke with him and invited him to our coaches celebration and my swan song celebration.   I hope Mike realized he impact he has had, I think he knew.  I know I am very proud and thankful of having him in my life.  

Without Mike, I feel I would have possibly gone down a differnt path that several of my friends chose. That path would not have been one that would have allowed me to grow and pursue the dreams and passions I have.

Coaches make a difference.  Coaches care.  Coaches are important.  Coaches make sacrafices.

To all our Milltown coaches, THANK YOU!  You do not know which players, or even their family members, you may be positively impacting.  You are amazing and such an important part of our community.

Mike, THANK YOU!   You have been an amazing force in my, and so many others, lives. 

RIP

Eric Ufer